Helping me determine if he is the man for me

by S
(Canada)

I know that this prayer request may sound rather silly in comparison to most others. I know that my crisis isn't that severe. But I still need prayers! Please pray that I may be able to figure out if the man I am currently in a relationship with is indeed the one I should marry (or not). I am really confused. This is a matter of my life and long-term happiness! The first few months of our relationship were perfect and he treated me unbelievably well and our mutual understanding/bond was extremely strong. I was certain that he is indeed my soulmate. However, his behaviour has been deteriorating lately. He no longer looks out for my feelings, behaves badly with me at times, hurts me in my "weak" spots and always "competes" against me in conversations etc. These are among many of the things I've been noticing lately. But I love him deeply and the possibility of having to leave him totally breaks my heart! I am quite upset and disheartened. I seriously need God to show me the right way. Please pray for me!